Cheat sheets for recovering people-pleasers, perfectionists, overthinkers and control freaks. Own your pink.
A CONFESSION: No matter where I am in my recovering people-pleasing journey, I have blindspots or fall into old grey flamingo habits from being a people-pleaser, perfectionist, and control freak.
To combat this and sustain my pink flamingo self, every week, I send myself a biblically-inspired pink flamingo step to meditate on and apply throughout the week.
If you are walking the people-pleasing recovery journey and need encouragement or a refreshed perspective, let’s take those steps together. Let’s take 52 small but mighty pink flamingo steps together each year. Let’s build up the version of you that you most need – your pink flamingo self. 👉 Sign up for my weekly “Pink Flamingo Steps” below!
A Weekly Audio Pep Talk (under 5 mins) with one simple soul-refreshing step to help you break free from people-pleasing, embrace your God-given identity, and walk in confidence.
A Monthly Deep-dive Blog Post sharing my unfiltered journey as God peels back the layers of people-pleasing, perfectionism, shame, and comparison so you never feel alone and can stand firm in who you are.
Exclusive Resources (free, paid, and discounted) to help you step into your full, God-given identity faster.
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A Safe Space: Share your experiences in a supportive, no-judgment zone. Get godly wisdom, advice, and encouragement as you navigate your recovery journey.
Unlimited Inspiration: Be inspired to "Dream Again. Dream Bigger." See what's possible in every area of your life, even if your God-given vision feels crazy.
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Join the inspiring and transformative journey of a woman who breaks free from past trauma, sinful habits, and societal expectations to find her own voice and embrace her true identity. This powerful and relatable book invites you to embark on your own journey of self-discovery and growth, guided by the author’s candid stories and experiences.
All book royalties are donated to grassroot organizations and charities that foster the emotional recovery of Caribbean child sexual abuse survivors. Child sexual abuse leaves devastating psychological and social scars on the victims, and their families, and community. I was one of those children. That experience at six years old robbed me of my voice and limited my potential for greater impact in my family and community until my late 20s. Buying a copy of this book helps you AND Caribbean people to reclaim your voices and embrace your pink flamingo selves directly and indirectly. Shake things up in your life while supporting a worthy cause today!
Join the inspiring and transformative journey of a recovering people-pleaser who relied on logic over emotions all her life as she shows up for people around her. Embark on your own journey of self-discovery and growth as she takes the steps to learn how to embrace her emotional voice and have internal peace and joy and deeper, intimate relationships.
This relatable book is packed full of real-life anecdotes, insightful reflections, biblical wisdom, and practical steps that will leave you with a deeper understanding of yourself and motivated to start your own journey.
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Our overarching goal is to help Caribbean people and their families and communities heal from the psychological wounds of slavery and its effects. Every single Pink Flamingo book and initiative tackle this problem. We are creating as many Caribbean pink flamingos as possible.
We donate 10% of our revenue to send people to therapy and support child emotional wellness education. We also donate the profits from “In Search of the Pink Flamingo” to grassroot organizations that foster the emotional recovery of Caribbean child sexual abuse survivors.
Here is how you can invest in creating more Caribbean flamingoes:
Let’s spread our pink flamingo wings and expand the Caribbean flock together!
Take YOU off the backburner of your life. Never put YOURSELF last again. Embrace the Pink Flamingo Way. Be empowered and equipped to serve others in ways that honor YOU, them, & God.