Serve, lead and love without self-sacrifice or sacrificing others.
Experience consistent everyday moments when loving others well doesn’t require self-sacrifice. When being yourself makes you more caring, not selfish. More peaceful. More joyful. More satisfying.
Own your pink consistently. Be your pink flamingo – someone who loves God, loves you, AND loves your neighbor.
The Pink Flamingo Way provides the mentorship and tools to make self- AND neighbor-honoring service, leadership and love your everyday reality.
One small act of courage and discipline each week. 52 opportunities to become your pink flamingo self.
There are specific things that are hard for those of us who want to serve without self-sacrifice. Like asking for what we need…. not helping when everything in us says help… or saying “no” without offering three alternatives.
Doing these things consistently builds our pink flamingo muscles and eliminates the “hard”! Even if you’re strong in recovery, it’s good to keep those muscles sharp. To remain disciplined and committed.
Build courage and discipline with me.
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$47/month – Monthly Mentorship
Dream again. Dream bigger. For women and men becoming who God made them to be.
Monthly gathering where you witness others take the exact steps you’re being called to take. Get mentorship for the moments when you know what to do but struggle to do it consistently.
Step forward when instinct says retreat. Trust divine guidance over logical control. Heal your grey flamingo-like blind spots and patterns that become weapons against you. Create the authentic connections you’ve always wanted – a community that witness, advise, and cheer as you embrace your pink flamingo self.
Limited to 10 per group. Limited to 4 groups. Meet once per month on Thursdays.
$47/month • One-year maximum • A mirror to your true identity
Your roadmap from knowing to doing in each stage of transformation.
Ditch the Expectations of Others, Own Your Voice, And Be Your Unusual Self
Ready to stop pretending everything is okay while struggling inside? Join the inspiring and transformative journey of a woman who breaks free from past trauma, sinful habits, and societal expectations to find her own voice and embrace her true identity. This powerful and relatable book invites you to ditch the daily facade and embark on your own journey of self-discovery and growth, guided by the author’s candid stories and experiences. Perfection and people-pleasing isn't required for deep relationships—you need help living that truth consistently.
Release the Emotions tat Block You from the Abundant Peace & Joy God Promised You
Ready to stop silencing yourself to keep peace? Join the inspiring and transformative journey of a recovering people-pleaser who relied on logic over emotions all her life as she shows up for people around her. Embark on your own journey of self-discovery and growth as she takes the steps to learn how to embrace her emotional voice and have internal peace and joy and deeper, intimate relationships. This relatable book invites you to ditch the emotional daily facade and embark on your own journey to expressing your heart without destroying relationships.
Trust God's Process Without Controlling Everything
Ready to stop holding everything together? For people ready to stop managing outcomes and trust divine timing.
You don’t have to choose between loving yourself and loving others.
Your pink flamingo self—the one who can serve others while feeling alive and genuine—isn’t something you have to choose over caring for others. It’s the key to caring for others well.
These tools and mentorship is for people ready to:
Live the Pink Flamingo Way as your pink flamingo self.
Ready to stop knowing and start being consistently?
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Our overarching goal is to help Caribbean people and their families and communities heal from the psychological wounds of slavery and its effects. Every single Pink Flamingo book and initiative tackle this problem. We are creating as many Caribbean pink flamingos as possible.
We donate 10% of our revenue to send people to therapy and support child emotional wellness education. We also donate the profits from “In Search of the Pink Flamingo” to grassroot organizations that foster the emotional recovery of Caribbean child sexual abuse survivors.
Here is how you can invest in creating more Caribbean flamingoes:
Let’s spread our pink flamingo wings and expand the Caribbean flock together!
Take YOU off the backburner of your life. Never put YOURSELF last again. Embrace the Pink Flamingo Way. Be empowered and equipped to serve others in ways that honor YOU, them, & God.