Stuck in an Exhausting Decision Loop? Here’s How to Handle Unfairness, Set Boundaries, and Regain Control

Imma tell on myself for a bit. Two weeks ago, I realized that I spent three months back and forthing with a friend about a critical decision. I took great pains to ensure we were both aligned and happy with the direction we were going. That was important! How I went about that went against […]
Trusting God’s Plan: The Twists and Turns of My Book Writing Journey (Part 2)

Are you feeling overwhelmed, unsure, or stuck in your faith journey? This post shares a personal, raw story of how God’s guidance led me through self-doubt, burnout, and fear, ultimately giving birth to a book I never imagined. It’s a reminder that trusting God’s plan, even when we can’t see the full picture, can transform our lives in ways we can’t yet comprehend. If you’re struggling with people-pleasing, perfectionism, or fear of judgment, this story is for you—showing how stepping into faith and obedience can lead to breakthroughs and a life of purpose.
Trusting God’s Plan: The Twists and Turns of My Book Writing Journey (Part 1)

Are you feeling overwhelmed, unsure, or stuck in your faith journey? This post shares a personal, raw story of how God’s guidance led me through self-doubt, burnout, and fear, ultimately giving birth to a book I never imagined. It’s a reminder that trusting God’s plan, even when we can’t see the full picture, can transform our lives in ways we can’t yet comprehend. If you’re struggling with people-pleasing, perfectionism, or fear of judgment, this story is for you—showing how stepping into faith and obedience can lead to breakthroughs and a life of purpose.
Betrayal or Disappointment?

Struggling with disappointment in your faith journey? Discover how to navigate feelings of betrayal, deepen your intimacy with God, and find peace in His presence. A heartfelt reflection on trust, surrender, and healing through life’s challenges.
Anxiety. Overwhelm. And Lying.

I lied to my therapist last week. He asked me, “How are you doing?” I replied, “I am dealing with a lot but I feel still.” It turns out that the handle I thought I had on the situations going on was not handling well. A cauldron of emotions bubbled up in me to the […]
Cut A Friend

I loved my friends and clients but, I treated them like enemies. I refused to cut a friend. Storytime. Recently, the Lord jerked me up about how I showed up in my friendships and some relationships. I gave them kisses and smiles when they needed something life-giving but hard to give and possibly receive. Let […]
“Well Done!”

Recently, the Lord reminded me of one of my biggest addictions and idols: Hearing “Well done!” from others.
Common human decency.

Happy new year, my friend! I am sitting here reflecting on my first fully solo trip to Costa Rica, a country where the natives don’t speak my native language, and I barely speak theirs. One of the things I grew to appreciate is the kindness of strangers during a time when “basic human decency” is […]
I walked away from the church and God.

This morning, the Lord reminded me of a critical part of my burnout and people-pleasing story. He reminded me of when I left the church and checked out on Him for almost a year and a half. I am not ashamed of this experience. I thought it was necessary at the time. I just never […]
One mile can be harder to walk than twenty.

On a night when I would rather have been out and about in Tilaran town in Costa Rica, the Lord prompted me to rewatch one of my favorite movies Redeeming Love. “Pay close attention to the marriage scenes,” the Lord whispered. After tears upon tears, I finished the movie with a new understanding of marriage and […]