A Letter to My Future Husband and Baby Daddy
Hi Sweetheart, On this day when everyone is talking about their great dads, my mind moves forward to think of you. Although I had many father figures, I didn’t have a great dad. Sweetheart, thank you for being one to our child. Whenever I hear this song, I think of you. I know sometimes I […]
My Wingman, Javahan
I’m feeling a bit sentimental today. My wingman, squadie and partner-in-crime for the past two years is moving away today… When I say moving, it’s not moving like 2 minutes away like he has been for the past 2 years but moving like almost 3 hours away :(. I feel this one to my heart […]
Weird First Dates Part 1: Mr. Reincarnation
I was talking to my friend today and we had a good laugh about some of the guys she went out with who were queer or just out off this world. I’ve had some of these experiences and I’ve decided to share in a 3 part series: WEIRD FIRST DATES…. I met this guy in […]
A Letter to My 10 Year Old Self
Hi Chan, knowing you the way I do, you are no doubting trying to figure how it was possible for this letter to get to you. Stop focusing on that, focus on the words of wisdom I’m about to impart to you after 22 years on earth. At this point, I know you are still […]
I Have A Mad Man Friend
Every morning, whether I’m on my way to work or church, I try to greet each person I pass with a smile and a good morning. It makes me feel good even when I’m in a bad mood and makes me feel even better when the person responds. A few years ago I moved to […]
Goodbyes (Part Two)
So Friday was my last day. I did not cry (I feel so proud of myself) but I was really touched by my send off. The words and the thoughts, man I don’t have the words. In this case showing is better than telling so here goes…. Did I mention that I got chocolate and […]
Goodbyes (Part One)
Today was a very emotional day for me. Although it’s not my last day, my department decided to surprise me. They have been sneaking around for the last week and had to keep conspiring of ways to get me out of the department :). I suspected nothing! It was truly a surprise. Custom-made cards, gifts, […]
It All Begins With A Dream
My friend and I were joking around and my comment “keep dreaming” was met by the retort “that’s where it all begins”. This in itself proved to be a powerful thought as Shane felt the need to point out *thanks Shane* :). Dreaming is very important because it gives us something to work towards achieving. […]
My Babies
So I’ve taught Sunday school for officially a year as of last month. I never realised until I started teaching teenagers, that though difficult at times, it can be a very rewarding experience. I now have kids. Yes, at 22 I have 10 kids and I realise the numbers grow each Sunday morning. It is […]
To A Dream Killed Dead
Despite everything, for years my secret self entertained the yearnings of finally communicating and working things out. Though my conscious self worked hard at looking ahead and moving forward, my subconscious self waited in bated hope, being a positivist and refusing to see the futility of waiting. How can two persons who clicked from the […]