Category: General Thoughts

General observations and revelations as I do life The Pink Flamingo Way

anxiety
Chanel Robe

Anxiety. Overwhelm. And Lying.

I lied to my therapist last week. He asked me, “How are you doing?” I replied, “I am dealing with a lot but I feel

pruning
Chanel Robe

Cut A Friend

I loved my friends and clients but, I treated them like enemies. I refused to cut a friend. Storytime. Recently, the Lord jerked me up

approval
Chanel Robe

“Well Done!”

Recently, the Lord reminded me of one of my biggest addictions and idols: Hearing “Well done!” from others.

Chanel standing outside with a white male
blessing
Chanel Robe

Common human decency.

Happy new year, my friend! I am sitting here reflecting on my first fully solo trip to Costa Rica, a country where the natives don’t

footprints in the sand
Bible
Chanel Robe

I walked away from the church and God.

This morning, the Lord reminded me of a critical part of my burnout and people-pleasing story. He reminded me of when I left the church

avoiding conflict
Chanel Robe

Get In The Box, you Jezebel!

“Get in the box, you Jezebel!” If you’ve watched the movie, Barbie, you probably instantly recognize that famous Will Ferrell line. He screamed it in

book
Chanel Robe

I wore a mask for 25 years.

I wore a mask for 25 years and thought it was normal. None of those things are normal. They are not what God intended for

believe again
Chanel Robe

Believe Again

December 15th has special meaning for me. It marks the date when God made me a promise that sparked my belief in something I had

chaos
Chanel Robe

Who has your ear?

A few weeks ago, the Lord said to me: Chanel, too many voices….   At first, I was confused and pondered on the meaning. As

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Hi, I`m Chañel. I used to be a people-pleaser who gave 200% because of my love for people. As a result, I almost lost my mind and my life. Today, my goal is to make sure people stop putting themselves last. And, if possible, never experience what I went through!